every now and then, i hear couples arguing about a girl, whether it be true or just plain heresay [or what they call chismis here in the philippines], still it does arise in one of the things that couples fight about.
certainly it's not only men who have this "other girl". it could happen to women as well, having "other man" in their lives.
i wonder why?
is it really "common" in a relationship to fight about "the other one?" i really hope not. at this age and time, i would still want to believe in forever after, of till death do us part, of one-woman-man or of one-man-woman, of making God the center of the married life, of marriage and commitment!
am i being unrealistic? believing too much in fairytales? hoping too much? am i too scared?
i am not being judgemental here. and i also don't know if i myself will remain committed to my loving husband and vice versa. i hope and pray that this is not one of the things that we will ever fight about. i don't like it.
i want to stay committed.
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