we had our ultra sound last saturday, november 21, 2009 and found out that we are again going to have another baby girl. honestly, i felt a bit sad. just a bit. for a while. i wanted to have a boy this time since i plan that this will be my last. i also feel that my husband, like other dads, would love to have a boy too. just like mommies who wants a baby girl. thats my only reason. after giving it some thought, i realized, what the heck? girl or boy. as long as the baby is perfectly normal and healthy. we cannot really mold them into becoming exactly like us because no matter what, they are going to be different from us. they will and can "carry our names" by having our good qualities by instilling it in them. in all honesty, deep down, we really want our kids to be happy and to have a good heart. to have a good relationship with God and other people. to have self respect. to dream and reach for the stars. girl or boy, we will do the same thing, teach the same things, because they are OUR kids, God's gifts. parents wants whats best for their kids, right? so as parents, we will guide them to the best of our abilities so that they can be the best person they can be, girl or boy.
